Frickin prom attire

So my dress is black, A line, sweat heart cut, very long, and the top is fitted. It's perfect and I loveeee it.... I want my date to be in black and white and I've always wanted to my date to have white tux butttttttt if he has a white tux then his vest must be black, his shirt must be white, and his tie must be black, and then my corsage can't be white cause he can't where a white rose pin thingy cause a white rose will look bad againt a white tux....and I wanted everything white and black! This is the major dilemma in my life... Life is hard... Hahaha